The desire to manage other people's actions, interest in methods of generating sincere interest in oneself and options for influencing a person have always been interested and attracted not only out of selfish considerations and gains, but also to manipulate with a sincere desire to help, but without applying requirements. Trying to figure out why women are so eager to manipulate men, it increasingly turns out that what is being done is not to meet needs (although we will not exclude such negative options), but mainly to make the two participants better.
Since with direct pressure and attempts to make something necessary, quarrels and destruction of relationships are possible, the female path lies in the area where the man himself makes the right decision. Manipulation is a special ability of a person to arouse certain desires in another, and not to make him fulfill the required by any means. Men themselves are not against subtle and skillful manipulation, and in many respects even grateful to their women for such tactics, and they consider this to be wisdom. But it is important to distinguish between positive and negative manipulation, before trying to learn these techniques.
It is easiest to manipulate an in love man, because he already tries to fulfill all the requests of his beloved, but if you use such bright feelings to achieve personal or material gain, without giving anything in return, the consequences can be devastating. Using the manipulation from the first days of dating, many girls do not even notice that they act within the framework of a long-nested and frustrating program, where only complete obedience is considered normal, and the wishes of the man himself are not noticed. This is the manipulation with a negative bias, when a person is used as a function, not taking into account his own needs.
Positive manipulation of the gathering with inspiration and the ability to find benefits for both parties. It is more like a mutual exchange than the requirements, the very principle of obtaining the necessary changes. If in a negative a man is placed in the position of a debtor, then here they begin to take care of him, but not forgetting to voice their needs and desires. As a result, there is a constant exchange of amenities and the desire to do more for another person, in such a mood, even the most unpleasant things can be done without unnecessary tension, because the smile will be the smile of someone who tries to please and care.