How to understand that you like a boy? You can learn about the boy's sympathy by a certain number of signs. In each case, they are purely individual, but they have common features. They can be found at a joint pastime, for example, dancing, hiking, walking, visiting cinemas. Smiles, glances, gestures are of great importance. Adolescents prefer silent signs of attention, and their communication is carried out on an intuitive level. A close look and smile indicates a clear preference for others, encouraging adolescents to respond to their behavior. Not always does the girl receive the expected smiles and glances in response, which leads her to despair and acute suffering, expressed in tears.
Of particular value are the touch. For the rest of their lives, these “magnetized” touches remain in memory. It was during this period that girls try to keep the experiences for themselves, hiding them from prying eyes, and begin to write poetry, keep a diary, etc.
In adolescence, there are changes in the relationship between boys and girls. There is a manifestation of interest in each other. In younger adolescents, the interest first appears in inadequate forms. The following forms of addressing attention are inherent to guys: harassment, “tearing up,” painful actions. Girls, often understanding the motives of these actions, do not take seriously such attacks of guys and try not to be offended, ignoring their cocky behavior.
Later relations between the sexes are complicated. This is found in the demonstration of indifference, in the disappearance of spontaneity in communication, or the appearance of shyness in communication. At the same time, adolescents are experiencing tension from the incipient feeling of love for members of the opposite sex. There comes a time when the mutual interest of both sexes increases, but from the side of the relationship look more isolated. Communication between both sexes in older adolescence is becoming more open. The attachment of a girl to a young man can be strong, and she is often attached great importance. If sympathy is not mutual, then it turns into the cause of the strongest stress, unpredictable consequences, as well as negative emotions.