Manipulator man - is a person who, using manipulative techniques, influences others, uses them for his own selfish purposes. To determine what a manipulator man means, you should observe people from your environment. Such a person is almost always not satisfied with himself or others, he does not love and does not appreciate what he does. He treats his personal affairs as if he were willing to get rid of as quickly as possible.
The answer to the question of what a person is a manipulator can be found in Shostrom’s book, The Man-Manipulator. Everett Shostrom in his book "The Manipulator" painted eight of the most popular types of manipulator people.
Man-manipulator does not know how to catch pleasant moments and enjoy them. Experiencing strong feelings is also alien to him. The thoughts of such a person are very critical, he believes that after his youth in life there is no longer a place for entertainment, pleasure or self-development. Therefore, upon reaching a mature age, he begins to lead a stoic way of life, in which there is no place for spontaneity, fun, or philosophical reflections on the theme of his purpose in life.
The manipulator man is being improved only in one direction - the improvement of manipulation.
The manipulator man has a distorted view of the world, he likes to experience suffering, he is always justified, says that all misfortunes stem from his negative past experience, although this may not be true. Such an individual is very eager to receive a high rating, he cannot assess himself as he would like, therefore he feels undervalued, unrecognized.
No matter what method a person uses a manipulator, psychology hides his inferiority complex, and the person manipulator believes that this complex can be overcome only if you fight with yourself and with others. Few people know that a man-manipulator falls almost every day under the influence of manipulation. The psyche of people is designed so that it is too susceptible for any influences, only specially trained or very attentive people can avoid falling under the influence of a human manipulator.
An individual accustomed to the frequent use of manipulation techniques is lost in life, forgets how he really is, incapable of expressing himself or acting naturally. Can talk a lot about their feelings, but not to experience them completely.