Someone's mind - This is an assessment, installation or guideline expressed by another individual or hypothetically intended by him. Often a person agrees that planning for life based on other people's guidelines is an unsuccessful strategy, but subordinates some life events to the influence of someone else's opinion. The manifestation of this perception is boasting as an aggressive way to get someone else's positive assessment, envy of others, strong character, fear of disappointment, complaints, discussion of your life, demand of advice on everyday life situations, blaming others, complaining that the advice did not lead to the expected total.
How not to depend on someone else's opinion is a painful question. The inability to limit the influence of another's opinion is the result of a breach of confidence, an extreme form of socialization, when the differentiation of I and Others is weakened. The emerging personality needs someone else's opinion, since, often, it is a source of information that is inaccessible due to the lack of subjective experience.