A pickuper is a person who uses pre-installed psychological techniques to get to know, start relationships and achieve their goals in them. Why do we need a pickup, why are men interested in them? When people learn about a pickup truck, it often becomes quite skeptical, the question hangs in the air - why meet a girl, which pickup artist will leave after one or two dates anyway?
Here everything is not so clear. Yes, often pickup methods fall into unscrupulous hands, very young guys start to use it, who still do not know either themselves, or the opposite sex, or what they want from life and relationships, full of complexes and negative programs. In the language of psychology, a pickup truck becomes hypercompensation, which does not help solve personal and interpersonal problems, but only drives them deeper and makes them worse.
However, there are cases of starting a successful relationship thanks to a pickup truck. How does this happen, can a pickup really be used for the benefit of both the pick up artist and his “victims”?
There is an opinion that having seduced a girl, and most often the pickup is aimed at them, the pick up artist should immediately rush to new conquests. Often this happens with guys who seek to collect more ticks, as if the number of sexual partners and broken hearts is a measure of their self-esteem and evaluation by others. Another category of pick-ups, more experienced and formed as individuals, may throw a girl after a couple of intimate encounters with her because it is pleasant to engage in intimate sex with them, but the girl is not interested in their inner content.
And then the ball is already on the girls' side - it turns out that a pickup is a kind of hack, a girl’s divorce for an intimate relationship, to which she doesn’t naturally follow, but doesn’t constitute a mystery behind this? After all, many guys are really faced with female manipulation of sex, which for some reason is not so condemned by society as pickup hacking of such manipulation. Here we are faced with the question of real relationships and the possibility of their construction, regardless of the methods, whether it is pick-up or advice from friends. Whose fault, if I may say so, is that pick-up takes place on the streets of cities? What strengthens this almost scandalous course - the complexes and cynicism of the boys or the emptiness and mercantile spirit of the girls?