An egoist husband is a predetermined model of family relationships, and a woman can learn about a similar state of affairs both in advance (then the continuation of uncomfortable relationships is her conscious choice dictated by the fear of loneliness or hope for re-education) and face selfish manifestations after the wedding (the importance of partner, the conqueror's instinct is satisfied and there is no longer any need to pretend to be kind and generous).
The secret which has been torn off or not paid attention to the first bells of egoism in the behavior of the partner leads the woman to the question what to do if the husband is egoist. There are plenty of options and the first to break the head of every kind of relationship that, in fact, will relieve this particular egoist, but the problem of choosing such a partner and the tendencies to build unequal interactions can be much deeper and not solved by divorce. In fact, not only the husband is a lazy and egoist, but all men tend to show these traits and break off relations with one, you can get the same scenario with another partner.
Before making such a drastic decisive step, it is worth assessing the degree of criticality, reviewing your own requirements and expectations (if they are too high, and you are used to being worn with you like an ancient Chinese vase, then a relationship with a mature person can really show selfishness on his part, although more actual your own selfishness). Pay attention to the differences in gender psychology and the distinctive features of perception, and the fact that the function of telepathy has not yet been built in for any of the representatives. Therefore, the option of establishing contact and trying to talk about your own desires and expectations may work, turning the egoist and the most caring spouse.