In addition to its level of development, human energy also has a direction - negative or positive. A person can be in a resource, have a very high level of internal energy and direct it to the destruction of their own lives, people or space. Also, with a low level of self-energy, a person can suck energy from others, infect their bad mood, pessimism and inactivity.
If you stop in more detail, the behavior of those who themselves have a lot of energy, but directs it in a negative direction, due to the motivation of the person or his personal psychotrauma. Perhaps there are depressed, unrecognized desires that come out of the world in the form of envy, since it is impossible to simply hide one's needs from oneself or destroy them, and if there is no legal way approved by the consciousness, then they manifest themselves in other forms. A woman raised in a Puritan family will spoil the reputation of an employee who allows herself easy communication with men, not from harm, but from the fact that she forbids such behavior, but she really wants to look at how others successfully do it becomes unbearable. When a person is touched for life, the most significant thing is taken away, the level of energy can rise to the maximum, having one goal in front of him - revenge. So, the soldiers, in whose eyes their family were killed, could then pursue the offender without sleep and food, overcoming inhuman distances and obstacles in order to also inhumanly cut out everyone who was dear to the killer of his family. Power and energy is always given to something, and if a person’s cherished desire is negative, then power will be given to it.
A person with unhealed psychotrauma may react inadequately to the situation, using his power to receive your love, but not with care and help, but blackmail, threats and manipulations. All these are manifestations of active negative energy for various reasons, and it is worthwhile to be able both to eliminate them and learn to interact with such people.
In the event that a person's own energy is reduced, then the option of spreading to those around such life-perception is possible. Most likely, a person will do this unconsciously, because with a low level of self-energy, the world really seems gray, unsafe and unpromising, but their constant stories and arguments in favor of this can convince many and reduce energy also among these people. The mood is transferred from person to person, and the level of energy is distributed according to the principle of communicating vessels, therefore, communicating with devastated people, be prepared for the loss of your own energy, and it’s not a fact that the level of another is substantially replenished. Many intuitively feel this pattern and when faced with a lack of their own energy, they try to feed off others (this is also called energy vampirism), trying to cause a quarrel, an outbreak of negative emotions or by constant livelihood, humiliation of the interlocutor's self-esteem and other mood reduction.
How to protect yourself from the negative energy of people
In daily life, if you do not lead a reclusive life, there are different people, including those whose energy is negative for us. Конечно, можно ограничить свой близкий круг и не пускать подобных личностей, но это могут быть и попутчики в транспорте и сотрудники, общения с которыми не избежать, а значит нужно противостоять негативному влиянию.
Работайте над стабилизацией собственного эмоционального фона и старайтесь не поддаваться негативным эмоциям. We lose energy, filling it with others when we get angry or nervous, when we allow intrusive complaints or manipulations. Learn to distinguish a request for help from empty whining, love from eating your energy, because it is often these kinds of energy that you feed your energy (a friend who complains about everything but does not accept your advice, a suicidal partner, do not let them reverse the emotional connection and exhausting behavior will cease). If it is impossible to regulate emotions, even knowing that all this is directed to you to harm, then instead of controlling emotions, regulate your mental activity (usually this is easier). While you are being told a text that is clearly capable of catching you alive, think about your work affairs, make plans for tomorrow, count the expenses on purchases, and let the speaker’s voice be a background, like a radio in a taxi.
Keep track of those to whom you are opening up, with whom you share not only intimate, but also personal opinion, attitude, preferences. We leave a lot of information about ourselves on the Internet and social polls, tell about your marital status and life to strangers - everything creates ways that others can easily strike you, intentionally or not, put pressure on weaknesses. Involvement in disputes also belongs here - the less your emotions and internal forces will be directed towards finding out the truth, the better. When you feel that your hands are shaking, and you prove your position by shouting, it means that you have drained your energy to your opponent. Won a dispute can only be a trick, whereas you need emotions, a shaky nervous system and a flow of information that you will have little control over in such a state. Try to agree and move away from further discussion, and observe what will happen to your opponent.
There may be a desire to deal with negative manifestations in other people, try to show them the sources of more harmonious drinks of your resource - then you should do your own level of vital energy, do something for yourself, and not take responsibility for everyone else. Leave people their choices and responsibilities.