Why a man does not want a relationship? This question is usually asked by those followers of Eve who seek to establish serious and long-lasting relationships from the very first date, and even if this period is extended, the generic genetic program makes us look for the most stable and reliable representatives for living together. To find out the future development of the novel at first, women are still trying to understand everything on circumstantial grounds, asking veiled questions, but if from her point of view some kind of relationship has developed, and the man does not lead according to her idea, then question and the same direct answer about the unwillingness of the relationship.
After this, some of the women will turn around and leave to look for someone who stays off her instantly and drags them to the wedding, and some will remain to think about what these words mean. What reasons led the man to answer like that, and many other variations - themes that gather girlfriends for evening gatherings in the kitchen for a long time. It is worth remembering that any pleasant acquaintance with a woman is not perceived by a man as an obligatory continuation of communication, much is done for the pleasure or maintenance of form. When a man offers to have a good time, he means only this, therefore he will be extremely surprised by the fact that you have already informed your mother about your relationship. At the same time, it’s not worth thinking about it, because you were immediately told what was going to happen and how.
Even if you start to start a relationship, the man initially sees them as a pleasant time together, and when the woman turns on the hyper-seriousness program to create the future, such assertiveness is frightening and the statement that the relationship is not needed now, the man can just try to win back that piece of freedom and personal boundaries that he had. By logic and biology - he must force things and strive for a lady, when everything changes in places, a man may experience terrible discomfort.
But there is a third option, due to a person’s lack of a period or state when he is ready for a relationship, there is only a desire for a relationship with a specific person, so if you hear about the unwillingness to relationship, then you should not heal the psychological trauma of your intended partner. Perhaps it makes sense to move away because he has no desire to create a relationship with you.