How to become a good lover? We will not invent "special techniques" of man’s satisfaction. Especially since everything has already been written on the Internet (or almost all of them). More interesting is the approach from the point of view of bringing up some kind of inner sexuality in a woman. After all, it is precisely in this that fantasy, sensuality, passion and other mutually pleasing pleasure mechanisms are born, in which the woman is a full participant, and not a simple “performer”.
The sympathy of the man is based on a simple impulse, sexual attraction. Therefore, his attitude towards you is determined simply: I want - I do not want. Naturally, there can be no talk of any emotional relationship in the case of "I do not want."
The male "want" is quite simple mechanisms. A light provocation is enough, and he already "wants." The program worked, the result is directed to you. The management of this program is straightforward, it can be called “show yourself”. However, the show is different! I categorically do not advise him to do too frank! With excessive openness you risk getting a quick bed and nothing else.
I would suggest to build a special state in me. This should be a feeling “good with me” as a barely perceptible train. You let him understand your desire with your eyes, lips, movements. But you don't do anything else. Your "good" must still deserve.