Previously, the question of how her parents were engaged in finding a husband, now this tradition is becoming less and less popular, and no one has told them what to follow when looking for a girl. Many follow their own feelings, but in adolescence they are very easily confused with ordinary sexual attraction. Jumping out of marriage in a state of love euphoria is the worst recommendation for choosing a life partner, because the mixture of hormones will soon cease to function, and you will find an absolutely stranger with opposite life goals next to you.
To figure out how and where to look for a future husband, you need to determine your own needs in relationships and in life, to objectively look at your starting positions. If you are a young girl who wants to joint adventures, then it is optimal to choose a party company, and if you are a busy workaholic who wants quiet evenings, you can easily use online dating. Evaluating your existing qualities and accomplishments is crucial in determining which man you can count on. Your level should be about the same. If a man has three higher educations and his own business, and you have hardly finished school and are constantly changing jobs, one can hardly speak of a long alliance. A girl who seeks spiritual practices and despises worldly is unlikely to be able to live long with a materialist who puts money above everything. In addition to life values and spiritual characteristics, such factors as age, the presence of children, divorces, and material status play a role in the search strategy.
Advice on how to find a husband often includes many practical recommendations, but completely ignores the initial needs of partners. It turns out such a manipulation that works, but in the end both lose. You can charm almost any person, especially if you skillfully pretend, but this tactic is not suitable for finding a husband. Better at the very beginning to deal with their internal complexes, fears and even injuries, to analyze the reasons why you are not married. Perhaps the very idea of marriage is not yours, but relatives impose it, or maybe, earlier you were badly hurt in other ways and now you are afraid of a rapprochement. Many try to get married to solve all their problems - from psychological to financial. In this case, it makes sense to work on internal supports, and not to shift responsibility for your own life.
Until the internal problems of the woman are resolved, the relationship will not go well. Men feel that they are not valuable as a person and what is happening in the interaction, but only a function of providing for some need. Many people unmistakably know how to identify a woman who wants to get married, but not qualitative relations by one glance and try to stay away. Therefore, it is necessary to understand oneself and understand why relations of such a format are needed.
Instead of reading the book “Tips for Finding a Husband”, turn your attention to the quality of your own life, perhaps go to a psychologist to help deal with your own problems. Increase your level of joy - and men will begin to pay attention to you, increase confidence and openness - and they will start to get acquainted with you. If you show that you are ready to interact (take off sunglasses, a deep hat, headphones and a hood) and smile at a stranger on the street or a work colleague, this will have a greater effect than visiting memorized places and patterned phrases.