Psychology and Psychiatry

Why can not say "thank you"

I caught one topic, I want to share it, to hear other opinions. Currently, periodically in the media covers the topic of how to properly communicate with people and that you can not say "thank you", but you need to say "thank you."

From an early age everyone knows that there is a magic word - “thank you”. Every polite person has this word in everyday life. In the past, the words “thank you,” “thank you,” “thank you” were common in people. These words have migrated to the present.

There is an opinion that every spoken word has a certain energy on a subtle energy level. And if there is a desire for communication between people in the future to continue in a positive manner, then you should answer not "thank you", but "thank you", otherwise the relationship will gradually begin to deteriorate. If you think about it, it sounds like an absurdity. It would seem that the person thanked the usual, familiar word, why should the relationship deteriorate?

If you resort to interpretation, the word “thank you” in the literal sense in the explanatory dictionary of the Russian language Ushakov has the meaning: “God save me,” which means save me from this particular person! I will not argue that when a person utters the word "thank you", he thereby closes his energy channel connecting with this person, as various sources explain. But one thing is definitely, if a person does not say “thank you” in a certain situation at all, then this will certainly build a wall of resentment or misunderstanding between people.

In most cases, people do not attach much importance to what they say and thank you for any service rendered, automatically thank you, and this has always been a normal attitude, it suited everyone. The word “thank you” is so firmly established in the linguistic tradition that when you hear the rare word “thank you,” it is just that that hurts your ears. Moreover, I want to turn around after someone who talks like that. It is a big doubt that when a person says the word "thank you" he closes at that moment from people. We say “thank you” to each and everyone and in response we receive, as a rule, a smile or a nod.

Suppose that when a person says "thank you", he sends and wishes another good, but no less he is also sincere at the moment of saying the word "thank you". The meaning of both concepts has the same essence, what's the difference, what word to give the interlocutor.

At most, having heard the word "thank you" you will be considered a rare intellectual, miraculously preserved in our world. No more. And it becomes strange, from the fact that “thank you” can’t be spoken, because by doing so we are making ourselves worse. The experiment was conducted personally; he did not bring any life changes. He had no influence on the quality of relations with people - it is equally pleasant for all people to receive as a token of gratitude both “thank you” and “thank you.” One thing is indisputable that when you give thanks, it attracts the attention of people, and you will probably be remembered and remembered for a long time.

And the word "thank you" can still be said. If you follow people's superstitions, they advise saying “thank you” to those who, for example, have done harm or with whom we no longer wish to continue communication like “thank you, for all of you!” The value of thanks in this case becomes sarcastic. It will be appropriate to answer "thank you" and those who brought you trouble or hurt you. It is believed that in this way a person protects himself from possible future troubles on the part of this person and this is not a manifestation of weakness. Such a plan superstitions in society are perceived differently and mostly do not react to them. Only a person who is a holy believer in superstition and who wants to draw the blessing into his life, more and more often introduces the word "thank you" into his everyday life. According to history, it is considered that it is beneficial for the speaker himself to utter the word “thank you”, since saying “thank you”, we wish good to the person, and wishing good to another, we subconsciously believe that boomerang will return to us. This is very reminiscent of business communication, built on long-term mutually beneficial conditions and sincerity in the relationship there is a big doubt.

Using consciously the words "thank you" or "thank you", people thereby attach great importance to these terms, referring them to magic, wanting to attract good or protect themselves, thus, from someone. To make sure that nothing in life will change for the worse and you shouldn’t fear it - all you have to do is to make simple experiments with pronouncing these words.