On holidays, I want to please my loved ones with pleasant presents. The actual question becomes if the birthday man is a husband, but the task of choice for many becomes practically insoluble. Thematic and professional holidays make the choice a bit easier due to the fact that there is a certain subject matter and you can start from it. A birthday requires an individual approach and the calculation of satisfying the dreams and needs of a person, to talk about which is inconvenient for him or not some social prejudices prohibit the desire for such.
At the beginning of marriage, you can give anything you want, then you can give various accessories for a hobby or things that your spouse has mentioned. Over the years, women are increasingly exhausting the list of standard tips, and do not want to repeat every year, in addition, the family’s well-being usually grows and the question arises as to what to give to her husband for his birthday, if he has everything.
You can even please a person secured by all, because hopeless situations cease to be such, if you do not follow the standard way, but to show personal participation and attention. Focus not only on the material side, as many will be grateful for organizing the event itself (almost all men put a stupor on the need to have a holiday). Remember the stories of his early dreams (especially the realization of children's dreams may touch): maybe he did not buy the desired bike, and he still does not know how to ride it, having three cars in the garage, or wanted to explore the city’s underground, then instead Vouchers for the annoying Bali can be negotiated with the city diggers.
In addition to the birthday present for the husband, one can reflect on the presentation and packaging. Sometimes trivial things (charms or a set of tools) are not designed to cause emotional delight, please with an unusual style of giving. A fishing kit can be disassembled and packaged in many small boxes, and the husband can hand over a map for treasure hunting. Having arranged a similar quest, you give not only the thing necessary for his hobby, but also positive emotions, a fascinating adventure.
In principle, many options that are perceived as children are very surprising and delight adult serious men. Look at the passion with which the man understands the instructions to the children's helicopter. The guarantee that the device will fall into the hands of the baby for the first time a day is practically absent, but the husband will play enough.
Handmade gifts are the most spiritual and original, except for this, you can give homemade items to your husband for his birthday if there is no money. This type of gift is very suitable creative people, but for those for whom the independent production of things is not the norm, can also be a great way. A little warning for those who are engaged in professional creativity on an ongoing basis - you should not give your husband a birthday job or work that is similar to others, carefully approach the process of creation (if working at home, it is important that the spouse did not notice the workpiece) so that he does not peep and not see a surprise in advance. The most optimal is to prepare a gift for him personally, you can also try to work in a new technique, so you and your spouse will surprise and you will improve your skills.
Forget about the huge number of sparkles, cats and hearts, exclude cute vintage boxes - the gift should be masculine and at least a little practical. It’s not practical at all - let it be as surprising as possible. A postcard is not an independent birthday present for the husband, but it will complement well any present, even if it is bought, even if it is made on its own.
Those who know how to knit, you can knit a scarf or sweater, it is possible to combine knitting and sewing, making out new models for his style. You can take care even with warm socks that are bound, for those whose husbands work in harsh weather conditions. Knitting is diverse - it can be covers for heating pad or a small blanket in the car. The time when hand-knitted things were hiding away in the closet and smelled like grandmother's mothballs passed. Now it is becoming fashionable and relevant, and girls who can do such things less and less. Men, strangely enough, very warmly refer to such gifts, then they can walk and show off to their friends (they will be jealous, seriously), since this is not just original, but a thing connected specifically for him, with the warmth and care of his beloved wife's hands. If a holiday in the summer, knitting can be replaced by sewing. The main thing in such clothes is that it will be exceptional for men of non-standard proportions, which make it difficult to find the necessary model in the store.
For girls with stage talents, there are also prospects for presenting not only the gift of their own creative work, but also seriously surprise a beloved man. If you sing, there are several options: you can record a song for him in the studio (just choose a song that reflects your feelings and holiday, or rather order a new text or write it yourself), and you can organize a performance in a restaurant.
Regarding performances - this is suitable for dancing, magic tricks, acrobatic performances, theatrical performances. Only preparatory work is needed not only in honing the number, but also including agreements with the venue. Protect your surprise from failure - in advance, find out exactly whether it will be free for the time agreed with the establishment. Best of all, it is a cafe or lounge with a small stage, then you rent a table, pay all administration services, and simply invite your husband to a gala dinner, telling what time and where the table is ordered.
When you already have sewing skills, but you won’t surprise your husband with this, you can watch online workshops or attend an appropriate course and learn how to work with leather - this does not require significant retraining. As a result, you will be able to present your own purse or bag, original belt or hat. Men love the skin and it goes to them, only mass production is not happy, and not everyone can afford the prices of individual masters. In addition, you can accurately take into account all of its needs, ranging from size to styling.
Continuing the theme of the skin - this is a great option for creating bracelets, for those who can not give something necessary. There is a mass of weaving mastered in an hour, that is, in the end, in the evening you will be already with a ready-made gift. If a man constantly goes with a diary, then you can cover it yourself with leather, toned, glue metal emblems and make embossing - the product looks expensive and solid, and for remaking you can take the cheapest cardboard diary with any cover.
Do not forget about the sweet and tasty, especially the tradition of giving birthday treats is becoming increasingly popular. People try to get away from the accumulation of things and as a care not to litter the homes of friends and relatives with useless figurines and other things, for years, lying in boxes. Guests can bring to the table some kind of exotic fruit or a bottle of wine, maybe a salad, which you constantly praise - and this will be a gift that makes a variety of festive table (by the way, many have already stopped buying half the store before the holiday, and are limited to light snacks ).
From his wife will need more, both in terms of effort and creativity. Discard the purchase of cake and bake your own, and if so bake, then find a new recipe. Use modern methods of decoration, because roses from butter cream are no longer relevant, but you can create such masterpieces from mastic and mirror glaze that not everyone can cut and eat without a shudder. By the way, a big cake can be replaced with a set of cupcakes, each decorated with different inscriptions, but in the same color scheme.
Do not forget about humor and creative approach, instead of the standard commemorative inscriptions. On the anniversary cake write that now it is old or scary. This is especially impressive for people around thirty - on the one hand, they are funny, because old age is still far away, on the other hand, the middle age crisis makes such statements relevant. But again, do not overdo it with jokes, otherwise your creativity can provoke not a fun, but a scandal.
Over the years, it is the romantic component that leaks out of family life, many couples are constantly in the economic routine, and intimate attention is given to their half only strength (not only sex, but also walking together, cute confessions, hugging books and so on) . A person wants to get not so much expensive and necessary things as attention, love, warmth, to hear good words. You can increase the degree of romance in many ways, from fairly simple to requiring lengthy preparation.
Prepare a congratulatory poster for your beloved, for this purpose it is good to use a collage of your joint photos and various wishes, the size is essentially as large as possible - take a paper. In addition to such a collage, a congratulatory garland will make a romantic note, where your photos or various photo products with inscriptions about love are also present.
From the second half of the day, children can be sent to grandmothers or relatives so that they do not violate the romantic idyll. Next, choose a romantic program. If it is a day off, then you can go on a picnic to the nearest park or even go out of town. Review the hotels in advance, book a room, and also determine the route with interesting places - planning should be present in any surprise, otherwise you will simply spend the lion's share of time on organizational issues.
If you don’t get out, there are city squares, roofs (by the way, look at the ads - some of the roofs have organized romantic sites with blankets, champagne and coffee for a rather nominal fee), restaurants, bars and your personal apartment.
Regarding the picnic, there are a few tips, in addition to a stock of delicious food, prepare a collection of pleasant music and fully charge the playing device - the background music will complement the romantic atmosphere. Provide insect repellent cream and non-wetting karemats - the weather and time of year are different, and your task is to organize pleasure as much as possible, and not to add problems. Even if it is a winter holiday, then you should not abandon a picnic - in the suburban forest, you can make more vivid impressions by setting up a bonfire than on a summer day. Take care of the availability of return tickets, a full tank of gasoline and a charged battery.
Choosing the option of home romance, do not limit yourself to a delicious dinner by candlelight. You can continue the birthday party in the bathroom, with champagne and fruit, or you can take your husband to the bedroom for a massage. Regarding the massage, you should decide in advance: relaxation or excitement you want from the procedure. Any technology can be viewed on the Internet, but it is better to go to one educational lesson. For erotic massage, do not forget to buy special oils, with pheromones or aromatic stimulating composition. Take care of your appearance. Stockings, styling, fragrance, makeup - everything must be impeccable.
Many people read about seduction and striptease for their beloved on the boards, heard reviews on the forums, but almost none of the men saw this act performed by their wife. Be original, surprise your husband for his birthday by performing an erotic dance for him. If you are confident in your plastic and have the ability to dance, you can put the number on your own or look at the elements in various videos. Those who have a desire, but feel insecure or lack the necessary skills can be advised to contact the relevant studios. Now there are quite a few areas where plasticity and flexibility are developed, and such dances as gender dance and oriental are quite easy to transform into home striptease.