The life position is the effective and emotional attitude of a person to all manifestations in his life, determined by the external framework and internal attitudes. This attitude is manifested at once on several levels - in actions, thoughts, statements, and even inaction at certain moments. Any position implies not only a passive demonstration of one’s attitude, but necessarily an active, active direction in the realization of one’s position.
Formation of life position occurs throughout life, but begins in childhood. It includes features of the neuropsychic organization, type of thinking, psychological trauma. In addition, the immediate environment (especially in childhood) has a direct impact on one's life stance, since close people form values, a semantic space, goals, and plans.
The life position of a person can be determined by him independently, depending on the plans and the necessary achievements. In many cases, a correctly chosen position helps the development and faster achievement of goals, but first it is necessary to determine the most correct and effective for each individual person and his individual life characteristics.
What it is
Life position is formed by the closest environment during the first years of life. The features of its development, attitudes, guidelines and needs, as well as ways of responding to situations, are broadcast by parents and caregivers, becoming interiorized categories. Subsequently, these inherent parts manifest themselves in all possible branches of human life, defining both moral living positions and workers, personal and even political ones.
However, this does not mean that once formed, the life position remains a static category. It can change under the influence of new knowledge or life experience. In many ways, a person can form its own changes through the application of mental and mental efforts, changing its direction and the usual ways of responding and assessing the situation. By the time psychological maturity is reached, the basic life position is formed, and if cardinal changes in the personality and the external social situation do not occur, then it remains key, being only slightly corrected under the influence of situational factors.
There is also a categorization of positions. One of these classifications adheres to the concept that the position itself is formed even before the birth of the child, since it is caused by the psychological state of the parents. This is not due to genetic causation or action, how much is the prism of perception. Roughly speaking, a person can evaluate himself as someone good or feel his own inferiority; all external reality is subject to the same basic estimates. Such deeply held beliefs are practically not amenable to subsequent volitional correction. Changes are possible only if conscious effort is applied, often with the help of a psychotherapist, and they require more than one year of intensive inner work.
Types of life positions
The typology of positions is built in relation to the ways in which a person interacts with the surrounding space. In relation to this, active and passive species are distinguished.
The active life position is always aimed at changes concerning both the self (creativity, learning, new acquaintances), and society (reformatory ideas relating to the norms, strategies and principles for solving certain tasks). At the interaction level, it is always manifested by leadership aspirations and innovative ideas. Regarding their own existence, such people are distinguished by independence and a high level of responsibility for themselves and those who are indirectly involved in it. In the event of a negative development, striving for violation of social norms, the organization of various criminal groups, revolutions and oppositions can be revealed.
In any of the options active position excludes indifference to the trends and processes of their own lives. These people are called to change everything that is considered inappropriate or wrong. Depending on the moral principles of the individual, such orientation may lead either to rapid development and reform, or to an increase in anarchy and permissiveness. Activity as a characteristic allows you to cope with all difficulties, quickly find solutions to all sorts of questions. Such people are not afraid of initiative and responsibility that lies in the implementation of their own ideas.
Taking the side of the active change of the world, people do not get hung up on their own experiences and difficulties, are always in motion and happy to change. As a minus, you can count the same requirements for people around you - they do not endure lengthy experiences on one occasion and the desire to preserve everything as it is, just not to be exposed to the risk and uncertainty of change.
Passive life stance adheres to conformist ideas, adherence to all social norms and rules, even to the detriment of themselves and when they are unreasonably stupid. The desire to rely on chance, not to change their lives, social circle and interests for years. Such a person disclaims most of the responsibility, providing many important decisions to the state, significant people or higher.
Difficulties for people with a passive position arise when confronted with difficulties and in solving creative problems. They, of course, are good performers, but almost devoid of leadership qualities, as they always tend to move along a well-known, beaten track. Sometimes this lack of initiative leads to an increase in problems and the frequent occurrence of critical situations that other people are already solving.
The static nature of the passive position at first glance ensures the security and publicity of the situation, but problems begin when external conditions begin to change. To be successful and prosperous, an important quality is the ability to pick up changes and reorganize your life regarding trends. Passive it is practically inaccessible and will sit until the end in a burning house, hoping that the fire itself will stop.
According to the type of energy direction, the positions differ in negative and positive. In negative manifestations, human behavior and attitudes are aimed at antisocial actions, aspirations to resist the existing pattern. In the form of active change or passive sabotage depends on the first two options, but these are always frustrating trends. Positive aspirations are directed towards humanistic values, development, and ethical norms. Moreover, if a person cannot independently introduce and implement such, then he will support and observe the existing ones, passing on a similar approach to his children.
Examples will help to understand and finally understand the main types of life positions. So, an active life position with a positive focus is expressed in his own high self-esteem, such a person is happy with his place, knows how to appreciate what is happening in his life. He can be passionate about many things concerning him and his environment. These are active participants in actions for peace and the fight against poverty, volunteers and simply not indifferent people. It is they who stop to help a crying child or a fallen on the street, while they truly enjoy their actions.
The opposite is the passive negative position. In this case, a person can evaluate himself as a victim or loser, and perceive the world around him as hostile, stupid, degrading. Life decisions are not made - people accept the fact that they are fired, offended, deceived and blamed on the injustice of fate. As a rule, they don’t have their own ideas for improving the situation, and if so, they are not going to implement them.
The passive positive attitude is rather widespread, especially in good economic and social conditions. People are able to appreciate what they have, maintain traditions, strengthen existing achievements, but not make adjustments. Having all the makings of this kind, such a person will not quit his low-paying, habitual work just because he has enough for everything, and change requires energy. They are subject to mass thoughts - they vote, like the majority, listen to the same music and do not argue. At the same time, the level of satisfaction is quite high, especially if the changes and troubles do not concern them personally.
An active position with a negative focus is a confrontation to society. These may be rallies of protests, upholding their position through quarrels and fights. Oppositions, anarchists, criminals are vivid representatives of people with similar internal foundations. Verbal aggression and constant complaints about what is going on, trivializing to trifles and exaggerated demands on society make up an antisocial personality as a result of a person.
For the sake of justice, it is worth noting that there are no pure types of positions, one can only talk about the predominance of one of them. Depending on the situation, a person may react with different options and this is the best position when flexibility is possible. The situation when a person reacts in a typical way all his life, without focusing on his own state and real state of affairs, is the most negative, because it leads to personal degradation.