The development of relationships, giving happiness and endless joy, is the foundation of a strong family. There are several types of relationships between representatives of the strong and weak halves of humanity: partnership, home, matriarchal and patriarchal, inspirational relationships.
In a partnership relationship, the relationship in the pair is based on equal rights and obligations. Characterized by the ability to always negotiate in a relaxed atmosphere. In such a relationship, a man and a woman are active, active and initiative, they both strive for development and self-development. Along with this, it is important for them to find themselves and successfully implement them in a certain type of activity. In this connection, grandmothers, nannies, and housemaids usually deal with household chores. Between wife and husband there is a strict agreement and distribution of duties. Often such pairs are characterized by a separate budget. Possible difficulties lie in the threat of transforming relations into purely material ones. After all, a woman, regardless of existing arrangements, dreams of achieving emotional intimacy with a man, so that he takes care of her, not according to a “schedule”, but at will. Most men make partnerships. That is why they are not in a hurry to take the initiative. In such circumstances, the woman usually takes the lead. It all starts with the fact that she is thinking about how to spend a joint romantic dinner, and ends with the planning of more serious tasks. This situation can not always suit both spouses, which leads to conflicts, and ultimately to divorce.
Therefore, people who have decided to create a cell of society, should initially seriously approach the issue of family relations. Before marriage, it is necessary to discuss with a partner the views on family relationships, find out his position on one or another topical issue, and ask about his expectations.
Home relations characterized by a fairly close relationship in which love prevails, and everything else in the background. In such a union, career, success, self-improvement, the achievement of any social heights or goals, the realization of oneself are absolutely not important. Such couples draw energy from each other and from their relationships. Love, home comfort and comfort dominate their lives. People in such a union, as a rule, are quite sensual natures. They do not seek contacts from outside.
Possible difficulties lie in threatening to empty yourself. Relationships can go completely into the domestic plane. The habit of sharing evenings is transformed into everyday necessity. Such a connection will save the presence of any joint hobby, hobby. You can do business together. Be sure to have such a relationship to diversify communication with other people.
Matriarchal Relationship characterized by the dominance of women. She is a strong personality, purposeful and active. Муж в такой паре обладает более мягким характером, он не стремится делать карьеру, тяготеет к домашнему уюту. В таком союзе обычно оба партнёра работают, но муж зарабатывает, в большинстве случаев, меньше. Все важные, жизненные решения принимаются женой.However, if a woman is smart enough and wants to preserve and strengthen the relationship, she can create a feeling for a man that he is the leader in the family. Such a union can be harmonious if both partners are comfortable in it and there are no mutual reproaches. However, if a woman reproaches a man for the insufficient amount of money earned, for his lack of initiative, he will begin to look for any opportunities to improve his self-esteem and self-affirmation. For example, she will get a docile and more feminine mistress, who will see in him a real man.
Patriarchal relations characterized by male dominance. The woman is the rear of the family. The husband is the head of the family, so it is and will be. He makes any decisions. Children and the wife are in his submission, and the woman in such a relationship is the organizer of life. If she works, then her work does not count. In this regard, a woman is not faced with the problem of choosing a family or work; for her, a family will be a priori more important. Difficulties may arise if a man starts to treat consumerly with his wife. If he underestimates the work of a woman, then this situation will always be touched by this situation, which can lead to an increase in intrapersonal conflict.
Inspiring relationships characterized by the inspiring position of a woman. It can be a muse for an artist or an ideological inspirer for a politician. In such a union, the main man, and his self-realization depends on the woman. He is not interested in victory, he does everything for her. The woman in this connection is capricious, demanding. Her demands are pushing a man towards achievements, they are pushing him towards development. This pair has some theatricality. A possible outcome of such a union may be the departure of the husband from the family, if the woman stops inspiring him. In inspirational relationships, a man usually becomes emotionally dependent on a woman. In order for a woman to be always inspiring in such a family, she needs to follow the path of self-development and self-improvement.
Love relationship men and women
If there is no happiness in the love relationship between a man and a woman, then there will be no happiness in life at all. Love relationships do not mean by sex only. Love affair is much deeper, more interesting, more serious and dangerous. Of course, intimate relationships - a huge part of life, but still a part. By and large, sex is a component of the relationship between a man and a woman, and not vice versa. Relationships will never be intimate.
What is happiness in family relationships? Most often, women and men represent family happiness in different ways. For a woman, a happy union is when a man is gentle and caring, when he takes responsibility, when he does not notice other women, he takes every desire and request seriously, talks gently, calls, confesses his love. The weak half requires men to fully worship themselves. However, to implement all of the above is hard enough for a man. For example, it is rather difficult for him to concentrate his attention on one representative of the female part of the population, because he likes to focus on some particular activity in society.
It is difficult for men to talk to the weaker sex as they like. They do not understand how they will be responsible for a person who is more unpredictable than themselves. Men never know what to expect from one woman or another. This suggests the following conclusion - all that happiness for a woman is a problem for a man. It turns out that for female happiness in family relationships, a man must lose himself and become unhappy. Is it fair? How can the misfortune of one bring happiness to another? No And if you still subordinate a man to your requirements, then in the end you can get a broken personality.
What is it for a man to have a happy love relationship with a woman? This is the unconditional obedience of a woman, the unquestioning acceptance of his authority. A woman must take care of him and his well-being. She should always be calm and patient. Her friends should not be a priori. Girlfriends are universal evil. In the first place for a woman should always be a man, and then children. These are typical mistakes of men in relation to women. They think that with such women they will become happier. However, is this really the case? Women cannot be calm, because they are driven by emotions. They love change. If the beautiful part of the planet’s population at least for a week becomes what men want it to be - the strong half will simply die of boredom.
Women and men, residents of different planets is a long-established fact. Understanding the "happiness" they have is absolutely the opposite, but this does not mean that they cannot together build harmonious and comfortable relationships based on trust, respect, understanding and love. Any relationship needs to learn how we learn activities in the process of growing up.
It so happened that women do not understand and do not want to understand men, but all of them require understanding from men. The feminines believe that for a harmonious relationship is enough if a man understands them. The beautiful half is not interested in what exactly the man wants. In most cases, they are convinced that only sex is important and necessary for any man. Also, women do not try to think about what is good in them, in order to interest the representative of the masculine gender, and he wanted to devote his life to them, to make their dreams come true. And after that women complain that men are egoists, while they themselves are the same.
Now about men. They do not try to understand a woman, they absolutely do not care about her inner world, so they are easily carried on all their manipulations in order to snatch at least a little warmth, escape from loneliness, feel at least someone needed. Men need to learn to see in a woman, first of all, a person, not an object of passion. A woman for a man can and should become, in a love relationship, a best friend, an ideological inspirer, a mistress and a partner. She just needs to help open up in this direction.
Do not forget that love relationships are the best soil for development and personal growth. After all, it is in the relationship of the sexes that all the strengths and weaknesses of the character are revealed. It is necessary to understand that whether relations will become a kind of engine towards self-improvement or will turn into a pit, where insults and dissatisfied desires are accumulated, depends only on you two.